Educator, AUTHOR, PresenteR

Hi, I’m Ruby.

Over the past decade I’ve been on a mission to get people feeling more confident about sex and relationships. I’m an award-winning educator, and create spaces to learn, celebrate, and overcome shame: on social media, and beyond.

I’m an accredited sex educator through Acet UK, and a proud ambassador for Brook, the UK’s leading sexual health charity.

I’m curious to have the conversations many shy away from, with a nuanced perspective that holds inclusion at the very core. My work is shaped by my experiences as a dual-heritage, queer, non-monogamous person. My pronouns are she/they.

my projects

The INS & OUTS

Join Megan Barton-Hanson and I as we delve into unfiltered, playful and inclusive chats about sex in all its glory. We’ll unpick all the big questions, along with sharing our own unforgettable stories of sex and dating. A Mags and Dear Media production.
Non-Monogamy Playbook

My new book exploring all things non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships is published by Ebury, and is out January 2025.
Sex Rated

Alongside Rylan, I’m the resident sexpert on Sex Rated, giving tips, tricks, and reassurance to open-minded participants who are in for the biggest relationship debrief of their lives. Produced by Mighty Productions for E4.
Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults

In 2020 my debut book Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults was published by Bloomsbury and illustrated by the incredible Sofie Birkin - a kind, inclusive guide to everything you need to know about sex and pleasure.
tv & film

From voicing a polyamorous mouse in an award-winning short film, to providing inclusive advice on sexual health and all things pleasure as an on screen expert and script consultant.
In Touch Docu-Series

In Touch was released in 2022, produced by Bea Duncan at Broccoli Productions. The docu-series intimately explores the ways we connect to sex, relationships, and our bodies with nuance and curiosity.
Sexy Sermons

Working in collaboration with The Hale Arts, this series of online and live events brings sex nerds together for a silly, educational time. Topics include non-monogamy, bisexual big sister advice, and what it means to be a slut.
Brook

As a proud ambassador for Brook, the UK’s leading sexual health charity, I host a series of interviews across Brook channels, provide internal training, and mentour Brook volunteers.