writing
the non-monogamy
playbook
My second book is published by Ebury and will be out in January 2025. The Non-Monogamy Playbook presents a modern guide to love and intimacy beyond the limits of conventional monogamy. This is a subject very close to my heart. There’s a growing cultural interest in these less conventional relationship styles, and I can’t wait to share my professional insights and personal experiences. Expect a book that’s curious, encouraging, and rooted in kindness and community.
Pre-order the book here
Sex Ed:
A Guide for Adults
My debut book was published in 2020 by Bloomsbury. Sex Ed is a no-holds-barred, inclusive roadmap that covers everything from how the brain is the most important sex organ, to communicating effectively with partners, all the way down to the glorious messy stuff: solo sex, orgasms, squirting, pegging, toys - the lot!
It’s a pleasure-focused guide, bringing together everything I’ve learnt through my work in the sexual health and sex positivity worlds. It was an Amazon Bestseller.
Illustrations by the wonderful Sofie Birkin - who brought the book to life in a soft and cheeky, yet very sexy, way.
“Ruby’s depth of experience shines through from start to finish and it’s clear no stone has been left unturned. She’s committed to giving you all the tools needed to think about your own relationship with sex and an understanding of how you can take your sex life to the next level.”
Sophie Griffiths for Diva Magazine
“Sex Ed answers [questions] in a gentle, creative, instructive and indisputably sexy way”
Vic Parsons for Pink News